Sunday, January 22, 2012

Social Media


I was just thinking about it. People always talk about how they waste X amount of hours a day on facebook and twitter. There are so many studies about how social media causes people to waste time and kids play outside less. And this leads to obesity and blah blah blah.

But what if it is the exact opposite?! What if twitter and facebook are actually causing people to want to do more with their lives? If you sleep all day that does not make for very interesting tweets or facebook statuses. But if you are getting new jobs, going skydiving and living life, then your tweets & statuses become more interesting. So it is a definite possibility that facebook and twitter are enhancing lives!

~ I’m not addicted to Facebook i just have an addiction to Facebook.

~ Facebook is to 2007 as Twitter is to 2009. It’s the most open communication platform out there"Roger Kondrat, social media consultant

Sunday, January 15, 2012

MLK Jr.

In honor of MLK Jr. weekend. I'm going to post my MLK oratorical essay from a competition last year. MLK was a was with many identities and the topic was to pick one that we identify with.


Martin Luther King Jr. was a great man. However, the reason why he was great,  as opposed to the fact that he was great is what has earned him my respect. I find it strange that historians portray him solely as the instigator of a civil rights movement because, to me,  it belittles his achievements. Furthermore, I am saddened that those who are far older and wiser than myself are the ones who glorify him in such a manner without delving below the surface of who he truly was as a person. Yes, he was at the forefront of a movement that put humanity as a whole step closer to overall equality, but to imply that this great deed was his only lasting contribution to the world is a disgrace to his memory. Does nobody remember what he truly did?
People die everyday. They die feeling unloved and uncared for. They die believing that they were worthless. They die thinking that their loss shall not be mourned. Martin Luther King, Jr., however, believed differently and acted upon his beliefs. He brought us together. He made us care. He made us care because he himself cared.
Martin Luther King Jr. was great because he was a compassionate man. He stood up for those who could not stand for themselves. He planted seeds of hope in the minds of people who had none and nurtured them into a forest of vines that connected all their souls to those of their neighbors. Every statement he said and every action that he did shouted to every man, woman, and child of every race and size one message: “I care!” and it echoed. It echoed from the shores of San Francisco to the fields of Augusta. From a little city called Montgomery, Alabama, to a mighty city in the shape of a diamond called Washington, D.C. This message stirred embers in the hearts of even the coldest men and made them feel what they previously thought that they could not feel: love. He made the lowest of the low feel this unconditional love, and so in return, they gave unconditional love.
It is this phenomenon that gives me the ability to relate the most to the message of this remarkable man: the idea that there is a balance in the world, the idea that good and honorable intentions will breed good and honorable results. It is this very idea that has inspired my love for the _____ field. I think of this: If every person that I am able to help as a _______ is compelled to help or save another, could you imagine the magnitude of that? Can you imagine what that will mean for mankind? Of course, it will begin as a minor ripple in a vast ocean, but as time goes on and more people spread kindness and peace, all of our collective action will make a significant difference, especially in the contemporary world.
I want to make a difference. I want to stand up and help those who cannot help themselves. I look around me and I see a race of humans that no longer cares about their fellow brothers and sisters. What has happened to the days where every man in a five-mile radius would join together to help his neighbor build his home? Whatever has happened to giving to those in need? Whatever has happened to unselfish giving? Martin Luther King Jr. saw my vision, so he showed the world what it truly meant to love thy neighbor and care for thy neighbor. He gave the world what he could give it, and the world gave back tenfold.
I will make a difference. Maybe it will not be as great a difference as Martin Luther King Jr. made, but still, at least it will help. And that is what is most important: It will help.

“Nothing in the world is more dangerous than sincere ignorance and conscientious stupidity.” ~ MLK Jr.

Sunday, January 8, 2012

bye bye service industry

So I worked at a restaurant for two months. I don't think I work there anymore but I could be wrong. What happened was I told them I was going on vacation a month before I left. I requested the time off online like you were supposed to. Then a couple of days before I hopped on the airplane my manager said that I could have the next week off but not the week I needed. I didn't feel like arguing so I said let me talk to my dad and get back to you. So that night I sent her an email and told her sorry my tickets to California are already booked and we cannot change them so I don't know what to do. She never responded so I was like hopefully that's okay. I get to California and I check hotschedules and I'm scheduled to work every single day. So I call in on monday and the manager who doesn't know anything answers so I explain it to him and tell him I will not be at work all week. He said ohh you need to tell the general manager that. And I was like okay will you take a message?

I wait and I wait and nobody calls me. And then I check my schedule again and it says "YOU ARE INACTIVE" in red letters. So I'm assuming that means I do not work there. And I do not care enough to call them and they don't care enough to call me. One of my friends went in and asked to sit in my section and was told "Sri quit. She doesn't work here anymore so you cannot sit in her section." Well that's news to me. Oh well. It was way too grueling and painful to work there. I cannot work with 20 year old girls. They are too catty and mean. In my new job I will be working with a lot older, more mature, nicer ladies most of which are moms. I have actually never been happier to be let go or fired or quit or whatever it is.

It was definitely a character building experience. And I learned a lot about hard work and what it's like to truly work for money. I will never ever everrrr tip a waiter or waitress less than 15% or 20% again! It's so much more work than you can ever imagine. I think it would be good for everyone to work in a restaurant when they are young... in less than a month you will get the picture. Anyway I am thankful that I do not have to work there anymore and happy to have a new job :)

The real judges of your character aren't your neighbors, your relatives, or even the people you play bridge with. The folks who really know you are waiters, waitresses, and clerks.


"Waitressing - by far the worst job ever created." Jennifer Esposito

Tuesday, January 3, 2012

2012!

2011 in Spain!
Well a new year is upon us! 2011 flew by. I remember how excited I was last year because 2011 was my graduation year. I celebrated 2011 while studying abroad in Spain last winter. As the clock struck midnights it rung 12 times. At each ring we ate a grape. Supposedly that is good luck in Spain. So I had champagne in one hand and grapes in the other. It turned out to be a fabulous year!

2012 in California!
I graduated from lehigh. I went to Spain & Italy. I went to California twice, Montreal twice, and back to the east coast twice! Lucky me :)

Now it is 2012! This year I hope to go back to school in the fall and just enjoy my last couple of months tutoring and hanging out with my family! Hopefully I'll go to England this summer & my sister and I are going to try and volunteer abroad through International Student Volunteers! I am ready for a wonderful 2012. Woohoo!

"I made no resolutions for the New Year.  The habit of making plans, of criticizing, sanctioning and molding my life, is too much of a daily event for me."~Anaïs Nin

"One resolution I have made, and try always to keep, is this:  To rise above the little things."  ~John Burroughs

"Cheers to a new year and another chance for us to get it right."  ~Oprah Winfrey